What to do
- Listen and Work Together.
- Remain Calm.
- Talk about the situation with people you trust.
- Gather all the facts before making any decisions.
- Remember that YOU matter in this situation too. This has an impact on her life and YOURS.
What not to do
- Don’t walk away from her and the situation.
- Don’t put pressure or blame on her. You both are in this together.
- Don’t remain passive – she will likely rely on you during this time.
Your Next Steps
- Confirm the pregnancy with a pregnancy test and ultrasound.
- Work together and talk about your options.
- Take time to think through the situation.
- Make a decision.
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